Should women love a perfect man?

How many perfect men are there? The answer is none. But that is not a reason for women to give up love, because love is not about perfection but about acceptance and understanding.

Women don't need to look for the perfect man; they just need to look for the most suitable man. The right man is someone who knows how to love you with all his heart, knows how to care for and share with you in every situation, knows how to respect and protect you, and knows how to encourage and support you to pursue your dreams.

Women also don't need to grow up too fast, or too early. Give yourself time to try and to err, to explore and to learn, to be happy and be sad, to love and to hurt. Don't rush to exchange your youth for an unworthy man.

Women also don't need to compare themselves with others. You are unique and special. You have your own strengths and weaknesses. You have your own values and potential. You can be confident and proud of yourself.

Women also do not need to pursue the delusional standards of the perfect man, because life is not a movie or a book. Life is truth and reality. You can't expect a man to have everything you want; you can only expect a man to have what you need.

Women should love themselves before loving anyone else. Know your worth before giving away your love. Believe in yourself before believing in anyone else. Live for yourself before living for anyone else. No matter who you have loved, the outcome is only the same. The person who stays with you to the end is true love. The happiest moment for a person is to find the right person, he will pamper you, tolerate your habits, and will love everything about you.

A smart man knows how to please his woman with the little things, making her not need to care about other men. However, do they honestly do these little things all the time? Girls, remember it's better to find a man who doesn't have too much money but freely gives money to you to spend; there's no need to find another man who clearly has a lot of money but he bets every penny with you. A man's bank account is not important; what matters is how much money he will spend on you.

 

There are some people you like but don't love; some people love you but are not compatible with you. If you want to know who loves you, don't believe by words but see by actions. See how he takes care of you. If you want to know if he is compatible with you or not, don't compare him with others, but compare his heart and soul.

 If a relationship doesn't make you more mature, unfortunately you've wasted your time. If that person really loves you, no matter what sacrifices he has to make, he will never give up on you. The type of person who only knows how to use words of love will actually become more and more cold towards you; they are just words of comfort. True love will bear sweet fruit.

Never hypnotize yourself to only need love without material things. In this world where everyone is sensitive to money, the person who is willing to give you money from their own sweat and tears will prove they truly love you, because stingy people only love themselves.

When you don't have a companion, even if you're lonely, you can still live happily; loneliness is a kind of realm. You can travel around the world alone, making different friends. You can also choose to go home immediately after work and enjoy your own life. Being alone is not scary at all. The scariest thing is, having companions but still feeling lonely.

How many perfect men are there? The answer is none. But how many women are worthy of love? The answer is a lot. So don't love a perfect man, but love someone who, when you love that person, you truly become a queen who can live happily, freely, and happily every day.

Thien Lan

Psychology today. This article is perfect for advising your teenage daughter