We still often think that a man only loves a woman for her outward beauty, but is this really true or not?
There are many things that makes a woman
attractive to a man. But what makes a woman truly beautiful is much deeper than
her skin, figure, or what you can see with your eyes. Let's learn what is the
qualifying feature used to determine a woman's beauty.
Time and age make a woman unable to retain
her youthful beauty. The media hypnotizes them by setting many standard rules of
beauty. That is why most women have to sacrifice their time, money, and health
trying to adhere to those standards. In addition, the cosmetic industry
maintains business by advising them to adjust their body one part, fix the
other if they want to keep the other half attractive.
In fact, women are not independently
beautiful, because there are always observers, interpreting that beauty,
possibly both of the same sex and of the opposite sex. Men's perception, love,
and admiration play a big role in the creation of a woman's beauty.
We can distinguish between truly beautiful
people and attractive people. In theory, classical beauty is based on symmetry
and proportion. However, psychologically, a perfectly beautiful subject will
show the qualities of caregivers, typically parents, or siblings, and they
become role models for both emotional and physical relationship matters.
We tend to pay attention to certain body
parts such as the face, eyes, nose, mouth, hair, hands, and feet. However, each
has different preferences, is attracted to different beauties, and this is a
good thing because few subjects possess all the desirable traits. This
difference makes a woman attractive in the eyes of certain, but not all, men.
That also means, there is never absolute beauty because "beauty in the
eyes of the beholder”.
Meanwhile, emotional maturity involves
recognizing preference tendencies that cause men to focus more on what they
value. Humans have a cortex that allows reason to function rather than just
instinctively.
From the above, we can conclude that sexual
attraction does not make a woman beautiful, but simply makes her look
attractive. Love is the factor that creates real beauty in a woman. When a man
truly loves a woman, he will love her way of life, and from there she will
begin to become beautiful in his heart. This perception is not something unique
to men, we all do. People create beauty in life and relationships. Have you
ever wished you could see yourself the way others see you? That is the beauty
of relationships. We can be role models and healers. If a woman’s other half always
wants her to change her appearance when you go with the man, then that man
doesn't necessarily love you.
A woman's profound beauty does not
lie in her attractiveness or classical beauty standards. It defies all
challenges and time. It does not require Botox, Pilates, or a strict diet. It
only needs love, but the beauty of love is endless and unaffected by the
ravages of life. Perhaps you have witnessed an old couple walking hand in hand
and staring into each other's eyes with passionate love despite decades of
life. Are you jealous of the love and the beauty of that relationship?
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